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I am insecure

  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “I am insecure”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people are unhappy with what they have, they consider what causes them insecure is coming from unfair advantage they get from other people and God, if we use different perception about this case; insecurity is not caused by what people see about ourselves obviouslyinsecurity is caused by unwilling to grow out capacity, as long as people keep doing what they love only, their habit will become them to be unhappy person, here is the bad news; if someone just walks around with unhappiness state of mind, wherever he goes, a sense of depression will not let him going outside from his shell, unless he commits to change his belief by adding value to increase his mental age, remember; other people are not responsible for our happiness because they aren't entitled to control our fate, except we let them controlling us, maybe you will ask me “why a sense of depression can’t be caused by other people’s treatment?” Because everybody has been given by God with the power of freewill, as long as everybody has been granted by owning the power of freewill, there is no excuse for not trying it.


  Please remember this advice; person who always does something worthless in daily basis, he indirectly educates himself to design a desperate life, if you find a person like what I mention earlier, please don’t add the uninspiring information to him because it will create a bad feeling, at this moment, I would like to share how to recognize the characteristics of depressed person, hopefully this information can give you a clue how to avoid the sign of depression, here is the first characteristic of insecure person; self-opinionated, the main reason why having self-opinionated can guide someone to feel depression because he tends to reject new change and unwilling to grow his capacity, if we see something in life, there is nothing rests and everything moves, that’s part of law of universe, if everything stops growing or moving, all creatures will die in vain and eventually life has no function at all, here is the bad news; if we insist to stop growing our capacity by doing something unworthy, we can't interpret what life wants, e.g. life pressure, environmental pressure and confidence crisis, here is the second characteristic of insecure person; self-righteousness, the main reason why having self-righteousness can guide someone to feel depression because he is trying to limit his self-image to know more about the truth of life, if someone behaves self-righteousness, he tends to consider everything in life is wrong except himself, this is part of dangerous attitude because he considers life is not working like what he wishes, in fact, life will not give what people want, life only serve what people need to survive, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.