I am sad

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “I am sad”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not all people can accept their own reality, they consider every reality of life comes from God, but in the fact, “every reality is created by what people consume about information they have chosen”, there is no big reason to blame life because every human is granted with the power to choose whatever they become, we will never know what we become in the future, but our decision truly determines what we are going to be, either being happy person or sad person, remember; every word has the power to influence the quality of what we think, if we used to talk with inspirational words, we will receive the power from what we usually talk, but if we used to talk with the uninspiring words, our reality of life will feel humiliated, we get dilemma in our reality not because of the outer world, but it is caused by the power of uninspiring words, at this moment, I am going to explain about several factors which influences our reality of life, hopefully these strategies can help you to improve your inner world, here is the first factor which influences our reality of life; the quality of information we consume from the social circle, it means, we must know the capability of social circle whether it can inspire us or not, as long as our social circle can’t serve what our emotional needs, we must leave that social circle peacefully. 


  Here is the second factor which influences our reality of life; the family tradition, at this phase we must observe carefully about what the family tradition teaches us because not all family traditions can teach us how to be someone we mean to be, it means, the family tradition sometimes tries to protect our future through following the daily ritual, please beware about it, I don’t mean to insult when the family tradition teaches us about the religion teachings or moral philosophy, the problem I mean is "the family tradition pushes us to be loyal and extremely conservative with the tradition's rule where it prohibits us not to do something bigger than what family tradition usually does in life", if we take a look a bit about the family's lifestyle, sometimes the family tradition tries to prohibit our habit and it teaches us to be follower, not leader, do you know why the family tradition often rejects new influence from other people’s belief in life? because they are too complacent about the ancestor’s teachings and they are afraid a new belief can destroy the family tradition, here is the third factor which influences our reality of life; personal philosophy, remember that every human has personal philosophy, whether they want to be happy, sad, rich, poor, wise, all circumstances they have created so far from personal philosophy, if we are feeling sad or disappoint about our reality, it means, we are too loyal about personal philosophy where it blocks our mind, heart, soul to learn something from this life, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.