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Increase happiness

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Increase happiness”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people can't differentiate between instant gratification and happiness, the root of problem why people can't differentiate between both because their habitual pattern is motivated by ego and arrogance, people who do something for happiness, they will not worry when they get failure or mistake, instead, every mistake they get can offer peace and enlightenment, whereas, people who do something for instant pleasure, they will get pressure when what they feel is gone, if people just do something for their career without considering whether it can offer happiness or not, they will not get what they deserve, instead, they will attract negative emotion, at this moment, I would share there are several tips that prevent people from happiness, here is the first thing that prevents people from happiness; living in the past, it means, these people are typically working towards the past oriented plan because they don't brave to adapt with new circumstance in the future, these kind of people usually feel satisfied about what they accomplished in the past rather than feel enthusiastic to try something they have never done, the reason why people prefer to be living in the past because their feeling has been afflicted by many sufferings in the past, such as the pain of adversity, the pain of rejection, the pain of disappointment, so they don't dare to face the future, remember this advice; happiness comes from continuously learning progress, if there is no progress in learning, people tend to let the pain of ignorance dominates to what they think and it can make them suffering in regretunfortunately many people don’t understand about what kind of demands that happiness wants, so people just focus doing what they like without knowing the consequence.


  Here is the second thing that prevents people from happinessworry about future, it is part of bad habit because worry can affect to the human’s mental health, people who worry about future, they are feeling unease because they don't have enough a mental preparation, only ungrateful people who don’t feel grateful about what they receive and their behavior tends to underestimate any form of blessing from God, here is the third thing that prevents people from happiness; people don’t count their blessings and they don’t maximize what they can collect from the blessing, it means, people don’t recognize about what God grants for their best self, the reason why people can’t recognize their blessings because they just pursue something where it doesn’t relate to what they can control, such as daily habit, perception, decision, I have shared in the article; the more we pursue something we can’t control, the more we get depressed, the more we pursue something we can control, the more we get  the abundance of joy, health, prosperity and kindness”, we must understand that not all blessings are related to what we can always see, such as money and possessions, every day we receive the blessings from Almighty God, such as health, reputation, knowledge, integrity, patience, enthusiasm, love, peace, luck, here is the fourth thing that prevents people from happiness; comparing what they don’t have with what others have,  it means, people forget about self-control because they just see other people are more superior than themselves, we must understand that every human has different purpose, the more we see many variant of purpose, the more we see a different result, so every human has life mission, don’t let our eyes can see something where we can’t hear about other people's struggling story, sometimes what we see can’t represent what other people feel, we must appreciate what God grants something to us even though it seems unjust for us, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.


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