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Self help


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Self help”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people are not ready to behave self help when they face insurmountable problem, some people tend to avoid problem because they think it is kind of self help from life suffering, if we use different perception to review this issue, self help doesn't mean we must avoid problem, but how to use problem as stepping stone to find your true potential, if you really hate about new change, you indirect reject the lesson from Almighty God where that lesson can give you a hint how to improve your misleading faithif you are making habit of avoiding mistake or rejection, finally you will get frustrated and this kind of habit can't offer self-help, instead you will get the pain of regret and great stress for long period of time, we don’t need to debate to who is responsible for the difficult situation, here what I believe; problem will not approach you if you are not ready to suffer, if you suffer for something bigger than your expectation, you will get extraordinary gift, mind and body is like a machine, it will not work better if we give both with destructive mindset, our body and mind will work effectively when we give our habit with constructive mindset, remember; once we accept what life gives to us, the problem we have will cease to be perplexities.

  Starting from now, don’t avoid any rejection, adversity or mistake because it is kind of self help to improve human's brain capacity, we would better to know what causes us to be rejected rather than we accept something which it will never be proved true, better future comes from self-esteem and self-competence, if we want to get something unexpected from life’s uncertainty, so we must give a surprise to the outer world with our steady resources, that’s key, here are some several lessons you need to learn if you want to change your life as well as your future journey, hopefully these strategies can remove your mental block, here is the first lesson you need to embrace if you want to change your life; don’t try to judge wrong when you receive the rejection from unexpected moment, the reason why you must accept rejection because it is requirement how to gain more experience, if you always receive something without rejection, you will be led into pleasing lies moment where it will give you a temporary comfort and permanent uncomfortable, if you just follow something that makes you comfortable, you will receive perplexity treatment from life, so you must create the balance which connects between uncomfortable feeling and comfortable feeling within your mind,"the more you accept rejection from unpleasant thing, the less people will doubt your preparation because you prepare everything you need, not everything you want", here is the second lesson you need to embrace if you want to change your life; don’t criticize what God gives you with new ability even though it doesn’t give you pleasure, the reason why you must accept new ability even though it doesn't give you pleasure because your limitation lies into your pleasure, God knows your limitation, He breaks your limitation because He knows yourself more than you know about yourself, remember this advice; the ability you have now is not designed to make you happy, but it is designed to make you survive, before you regret in the future, God prepares you to be stronger than where you are now, if you can survive in the future, your happiness will increase than previous one and you can go wherever you can, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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