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Stop arguing


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Stop arguing”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people aren’t ready to accept different argument, especially when they hold a meeting with other people in the same company, if we take a look at human relationship, most people have no idea with whom they associate with, average people just want to befriend with others without observing what topic they love to talk, what they want to hear and what they offer, if someone doesn't research about it, there must be different argument during making conversationbefore the argument will arise, we mustn't start to share information what other people don't need, if we keep sharing information what people don't need from us, we will dig up the wound of conflict, do you know where does wound come from? It comes from personal philosophy, I just remind you that philosophy comes from the belief system where it has been designed by information where you consume every day, if you don't enjoy with your life, there must be something wrong with your personal philosophy, here is the special note; good or bad thing in life comes from your interpretation, life is neutral, life doesn’t offer bad thing if you accept your best self, if your ignorance about yourself is bigger than what you know, you let yourself wounded by your imagination, whereas, if what you know is bigger than your ignorance about yourself, you will not get wound, the major key to reduce the wound is you must consume information how to make your life is worthwhile.


  In my opinion, the chaos happens in this world because people defend their own argument without letting their argument tested with truth, the main reason why people like to show their argument because they want to recognize their confidence level to othersat this phase you must know the high degree of human's emotion is determined by what they know, if other people start to share what they know to you, there is the adaptation process during conversation, am I right? now your reputation will be bet here, if you just listen what other people say something to you without starting to debate, there is no problem with it, but when other people say something and you disagree with it, the wound of conflict will happen if you show your disagreement, if this situation is getting arisen, you must stop arguing immediately, remember this note; everything we see and everything we hear is part of our interpretation, we don't have the personal right to control other people's argument, our reality will be shaped based on what our habit does for us and what our belief does for us, there is nothing we can do if there is different argument in this world, we must appreciate it even though we dislike it because everybody has different mental level and different life experienceour lives will be full of uncertainty if we focus on something we can't control (such other people's argument), life will be showing some certain ways if we commit to what we intend to do without getting external conflict with other people's argument, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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