True friend

Good friend gives the valuable thing to others
   
Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "true friend", the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can find their true friend in their whole life story, if you ask me why many people can't find the true friend because they just demand other people to treat themselves better rather than they demand themselves to build good characteristic for true friend's hope, people who don't build good habit for fulfilling other people's hope, they will be assembled by Almighty God with the fake/toxic friend's characteristic, here is my recommendation; before we want to get something we deserve, we must give what makes other people deserve at first, that's natural law, remember; good habit is not designed to satisfy ourselves, but good habit is designed to fulfill other people's hope, the reason why many people are trapped in bad social circle because they just build habit for fulfilling themselves, here is the bad news; if people are busy to fulfill their own satisfaction, if their sense of satisfaction's period is gone, after that, their sense of fearfulness is growing up rapidly, at this moment I would like to share some strategies how to be found by a true friend, here is the first strategy you must do if you want your existence will be found by a true friend; don't be busy to satisfy yourself, the reason why you aren't recommended to be busy to satisfy yourself because it is not good habit, instead this kind of habit will kill your future, remember this; satisfy yourself with what you want is like you consume large scale of antidepressant to your body just for reducing your depression state, this behavior will lead yourself to stay in permanently desperate, here is the special note; there is nobody will get fortune if we just hope from other people's mercy, fortune will come by itself when our habit deserves it.

Worrying will not solve anything

  True friend doesn't appear to your daily routine activity if you are busy to pursue your passion or dream, true friend will offer the support if you really need any assistance, sometimes true friend is like a dream, he will not give trouble to you, remember; good dream is not designed to follow your passion, but good dream is designed to fulfill many people's future hope, the more you focus about yourself, the more you worry about yourself, whereas, the less you focus about yourself, the less you worry about yourself, here is the second strategy you must do if you want your existence will be found by a true friend; you nurture a skill where you don't need it, but you invest your skill to solve other people's problem as if you haven't cared about your own problem, this kind of habit is difficult to apply because it needs strong intention, noble mission, empathy and repetition of good act, here is special note; finding true friend is like finding a way to success, there is no single person knows about type of person he can associate with until he builds a habit where it is congruent with true friend's hope, starting from now, we must know the basic purpose why we are destined to be born on earth if we want our lives get appreciated highly, in order to build a good habit, we must research about other people's pain, so we can propose solution to relieve their pain, fate is like meeting with true friend, we don't need to think "how to find true friend", it would better we should think "how our masterpiece will be detected by true friend's pain", I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Persistent depressive disorder

Symptom of dysthymia

  Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth, and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "persistent depressive disorder", the main reason why I choose that topic because many people pretend to be happy, but their behavior tends to manifest the sign of persistent depressive disorder, if you ask me why people get persistent depressive disorder because they just spend their major time to run activity which offers low energy, e.g. watching too much TV, overexcited about extravagant lifestyle, buying something for self-indulgence treatment, drinking alcohol, hang out with toxic friends, doing something fun with social media application without having certain purpose, now I just want to remind you; if people live a life with overjoyed activity without wanting something to learn, their life journey would be more difficult because they just tend to focus how to pursue enjoyment and not to balance their daily routine activity with something painful, such as learning how to adapt with problem, here is the bad news; if people's habit dissociates with life rule, as impact, whatever people feel can cause them to not to have interest about normal life, that is dangerous behavior, life will take place into peace if people don't side to happiness only, here is the special note; life system has two sides; happiness and pain, we mustn't live by neglecting one among them, happiness and pain is inseparable, don't ever think to live a life with sense of happiness only, sometimes you need to feel pain, e.g. discipline, if someone lacks of discipline for long period of time, his habit will form into persistent depressive disorderif there is no disciplined action, human will lack of enthusiasm which causes a lot of problem, such as low self-esteem, hopelessness, poor concentration, low appetite, less time to sleep, here is my recommendation; don't feed your mind with activity which offers overexciting behavior because it will invite the pain of addictionpeople who suffer persistent depressive disorder, they tend to feed their mind and habit with activity which offers low energy, only activity's low energy which causes people to taste addicted until they don't know how to stop addiction, remember; the activity which offers high energy doesn't make people addicted because it is very difficult to pass, instead, activity which offers low energy will influence people not to pursue their interest. 


Persistent depressive disorder

  I just want to remind you that every human's desire demands human's physical pain and mental acumen to work in real life, so people who suffer dysthymia can be healed by giving them a critical question therapy continuously, maybe you can ask them "what do you want in life" and "what kind of accomplishment you want to achieve" "what kind of problem do you want to solve?" "where do you want to go in 5 years later?", remember; people who lack of interest to pursue the goal, they will immobilize their potential by doing something uninspiring, if people feel has no potential, they don't optimize their focus to prepare plan to manifest the goal into reality, if people lack of using their potential for better purpose, as impact their potential tends to decrease human's a sense of enthusiasm, if human have low enthusiasm, they will start complaining when they meet with new problem, finally they suffer persistent depressive disorder or dysthymiathe best medicine for helping people who suffer persistent depressive disorder; you can ask them to detect "where does your sense of enthusiasm usually go?", if people start to imagine about their enthusiasm's location, they tend to crave their vivid imagination with something excited, such as the favorite place or the special gift, if they succeed to imagine about something exciting, they tend to practice their physical body to do something sweaty, if they can concentrate about something sweaty to arrive there in the defined time, here is best part; if people who suffer dysthymia can set their interest with deadline, they can heal their mental illness by their own version, remember; human's potential will work at maximum level if people lure their potential with interesting goal, potential comes from enthusiasm, if people follow their enthusiasm, finally people can revive their low energy to be converted into high energy, here are activities which offers high energy; reading book, meditation, learn from successful people, run the business, get sport, make financial planning, going on picnic, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you a new insight how to improve your life, good luck.

Mental capacity

Exchanging information for duplicating mental capacity

  Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "mental capacity", the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are ready to welcome life's suffering, if you ask me why everybody needs to know about their mental capacity because life offers different level of suffering in every single day, if we don't have enough mental strength, we will feel distressed every time we want to take another journey, I want to give you real example; now imagine you go to the gym, you will see the barbell's weight 1 kg, 5 kg, 10 kg, 20 kg, 30 kg, 40 kg, 50 kg around you, the barbell's weight represents life's suffering, if you want to shape good muscles, you must train your physical muscle by lifting the barbell, it is same thing if you want to shape your mental capacity, the problem you see in your life represents the barbell's weight you can lift, if your mental capacity is around 10 kg, God allows you to solve a small problem, remember; God will not put your life to the higher rank if you aren't willing to increase your mental capacity, here is the definition of being happy person; someone who is ready to endure high responsibility because his mental strength is heavier than life's suffering, whereas, the definition of being desperate person; someone who isn't ready to endure high responsibility because his mental strength is lighter than the life's suffering, now my question to you "how much problem you can solve with your mental capacity?", if you can solve 50 kg of problem, it means, your mental capacity is around 50 kg, here is the key how to measure your mental capacity; the problem's weight you solve is representing your mental capacity


Mental capacity

  Instant pleasure is the big enemy for mental capacity, do you know why I say such thing because instant pleasure influences people's mindset not to take high responsibility in life, if people only want to take small responsibility in life, their life career will not develop as they hope because they don't want to increase their mental capacity by providing solution to solve the problem's weight in human's life, here is the bad news; if people's mental capacity is not strong enough to endure high responsibility, they will never find a good career in their lives, instead, they only get a career where it can disappoint them, here is my recommendation; don't try to avoid problem when God gives you opportunity solve problem, if God sends His package for you, it indicates your mental capacity is ready to solve problem, you must be pleased if you receive problem because that's only way how to improve your career, if you don't upgrade your mental capacity, your career will make you bored, finally the marketplace isn't interested with your service, starting from now; you can analyze whether your service can offer solution to the marketplace's demand or not, if your service can offer solution to the marketplace's demand, it indicates you have opportunity to develop your mental capacity by fulfilling the market's demand, the more you can fulfill the market's demand, the more you get the power to increase your mental capacity, here is the formula how to increase your career, human's psychology 80%, the marketplace's demand 10% and exit strategy 10%, please contemplate it now, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you new insight how to improve your life, good luck. 

Smart goal

Smart goal gives you perseverance to make progress

  Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "smart goal", the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are aware about the goal setting's influence, some people just set the goal they desire without knowing about strong reason behind it, as impact, they will feel difficult during process because their goal can't inspire what they do, in order to create smart goal, people must have deadline to monitor the goal, do you know why people need to set the deadline for their goal? Because creating the deadline can prevent a sense of procrastination to grow, as we know having a sense of procrastination can become big obstacle to increase our competent skill, here is the first characteristic of smart goal; smart goal can help us to prevent a sense of procrastination to grow, this strategy really works when we will feel enthusiasm to enjoy the process, if we can't enjoy the learning process, it indicates that we set the wrong goal, if we really want to create smart goal, we have to analyze whether the goal doesn't make us fear or not, if we don't fear accepting new mistake or failure after we make attempt to reach the deadline target, that's smart goal, if the goal setting can make us fear or it doesn't give us peace, it indicates that we want to destroy our confidence, it is not good idea, here is the second characteristic of smart goal; smart goal can help us to unlock our awareness and improve our potential relentlessness, here is the good news; if we can combine between our awareness, potential and other people's problem, three of them can become a new currency for our worthiness.  

Awareness level

  Now, I have question for you; before you want to pursue what you accomplish, you must measure your mental acumen by asking the critical question "Am I ready to receive nothing from what I struggle?", if you aren't ready to accept something which is opposite with your expectation, your conscious mind indirectly destroys your plan because you are too fearful to see about the result, if you have smart goal, it doesn't give you fear, worry or regret although you have failed at many times, here is the third characteristic of smart goal; smart goal doesn't last on short term period, it means, smart goal will run lifelong after that smart goal evokes your potential to create more different result, here is the good news; smart goal doesn't need motivation from other people's influence because smart goal teaches us how to become independent person who possess unique ability to help people's problem, here is the fourth characteristic of smart goal; smart goal will turn into inner peace when you finish something progressively, it means, smart goal will keep you communicating with God once you finish something, if your smart goal can help you to improve the connection between you and Almighty God, so whatever you do right now, you will get blessed by God, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this information can give you new insight how to improve your life, good luck.



Presentation skills

Lack of Presentation skill

  Hi good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "presentation skills", the main reason why I choose that topic because many people have problem during they are performing presentation in front of the audience, if you ask me why many people can't improve their presentation skills because they can't understand the audience's power, no wonder many audiences feel asleep when they hear the topic from the presenter because the audience can't get the critical point from the presenter's speaking way, the problem doesn't come from the audience, it comes from the presenter's speaking class skill which can't fulfill what the audience wants to hear, what the presenter often thinks is how to communicate what he wants to say without mastering the emotional needs where it came from the audience's hope, at this moment, I would share about some strategies how to improve presentation skills, hopefully it can improve the way you perform during presentation at the company you are working, here is the first strategy how to improve presentation skills; you must provide the detail point from your presentation material where it can attract the audience's curiosity, this strategy will keep your audience focusing on your presentation material and this strategy will help you how to remove ambiguous towards the audience's assumption, if you don't master the detail area from your presentation material, please don't show it up during the presentation's performance because it can give you a panic attack.


the naive of presentation skill

  Here is the second strategy how to improve presentation skills; don't let your presentation material will push the audience to ask the question where it doesn't exist within your presentation material, you have to ensure every presentation material point use the simple word where it can block the ambiguous from the audience, sometimes you need to remove the point where it can raise the audience's assumption, the point from what I am saying is you must ensure the presentation material will not let the audience asking the question where it doesn't hit to your data record, Here is the third strategy how to improve presentation skills; you have to know about the audience's power at first before the presentation performance is begun, the reason why you need to know about the audience's power because it can help you to measure your capability and also to ensure your data can fit the audience's satisfaction, if you don't understand about the audience's power, you will get the panic attack when the audience tests your knowledge, Here is the fourth strategy how to improve presentation skills; don't create the informal atmosphere when you perform the presentation, it means, you have to ensure your physical body is supporting your good mood during presentation, don't let your mood feels unsteady when you perform the presentation, don't let your body indicates that you tremble with the situation or your body produces sweat a lot during presentation, you have to ensure you consume enough drink before you start your presentation, the unfit body will immobilize your concentration, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this information can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Problem solving & decision making

The decision Maker

   Hi good reader, welcome back with me, Fian, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of wealth, health and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "Problem solving & decision making", the main reason why I choose that topic because many schools don't teach students how to have problem solving & decision making, what students get is how to remember the history, how to calculate the numbers and how to copy what teachers saying, that's common misleading tradition where most teacher don't realize it, nowadays many schools still believe the memorizing method during learning can become the trademark for the next generation, here is my research; the education system in the school is designed to create the fixed mindset and to recruit the employee, I don't blame if people want to be employee or the labor at the company, if this tradition is being repeated again and again, eventually, people will never be able to possess problem solving & decision making skill because the tradition blocks human's potential to explore something people don't know, remember; every tradition is not designed to develop human's potential, instead, every tradition is designed to protect what human need to believe, it is very difficult to against the tradition where it had been built long time ago, the best attitude we can perform if the tradition blocks our potential is we need to challenge ourselves how to be new student every day where there is nobody will restrict our movement and our curiosity.



Most important thing is problem solving skill

  Starting from now, we must recognize what holds us back to become unique person, as long as we can't develop our strength to recognize our ingenuity skill, as impact, we always be a slave, remember; only knowledge and creativity can free us from being a slave, at this moment I would like to share how to build problem solving skill / decision making skill, hopefully these strategies can give you a new insight how to improve your life, here is the first thing how to build problem solving skill / decision making skill; don't behave like what the majority of people do in their leisure time, this is first requirement how to build problem solving skill, if we see reality, the majority of people only spend their leisure time to indulge me-time as if tomorrow will never existed, that's wrong behavior, if you think tomorrow is more important than what you do today, you must prepare your skill in order to welcome the unexpected moment or new problem, if you have soldier mentality, you will not spend your time to take rest and sleep all day long, instead, you keep digging your potential by delegating your curiosity in order to solve other people's problem, if you do something where most people won't, tomorrow you can master where most people can'there is the second thing how to build problem solving skill / decision making skill; don't let your last achievement stops you to move forward, it means, you keep searching your potential in order to leave new achievement again for the future, remember this advice; although you are financially free today, it doesn't mean tomorrow you will be free again, do you know why? because there is nobody will guarantee your future, that's soldier mentality, here is the third thing how to build problem solving skill / decision making skill; stop asking "why", rather you are asking "how", it means, it means, you don't fear when problem comes to you, if you practice your mind to ask "how", your mind will be led to the problem, then you will be taught by problem how to excel your mindset class and finally you will be taught how to solve the next problem, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this information can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

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