Self hatred

Stress is part of self hatred

      Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Self hatred”,  the main reason why I choose that topic because many young generation have been taught by social circle's style to do something unnaturally, such as playing gadget in hours, watching too much TV, hang out in the mall without purpose, staying up late without having urgent purpose, bullying other friends, if you ask me about the root of problem why many young people are doing something unnaturally because their mindset has been poisoned by the haters's influence, remember; there is no kid can hate something without being influenced by adult people or social circle, maybe they are teachers, parents, neighborhood, etc. "person who is irresponsible about his own life tends to spread a sense of hatred to other people through social media or another community because he thinks he is a victim of morality, he doesn't get unjustified, undeserving, etc." the basic problem comes from human's ego, if people understand about how life works, they wouldn't argument about what life wants, in order to eliminate the side effect of self hatred, we must develop a sense of caring by offering solution to other people's pain or helping people to direct their life to the better place. 

Destroy your ignorance if you want to love yourself

   The reason why we need to get new pain even though we hate because life is full of risk and uncertainty, if we try to escape from the suffering, we will be forced to feel inadequate and we feel down into the pain of regret, remember this advice; there is nothing can make us suffering unless our meaningless desire, and there is nothing can make us hate something unless we hate to accept kindness, sometimes we must beware about what we love because not all we love is worthy to consume, sometimes what we hate is more important than what we love because ego doesn't like with something against with it, here is the first strategy how to eliminate a sense of self-hatred; share your kindness although you don't have much the material wealth, do you know why sharing kindness is good for human because kindness has the power to neutralize a sense of self-hatred, remember this note; ego always motivates human to do something they love without considering the huge consequence behind it and ego doesn't work when people dedicate to do something they don't really love to do, such as sharing kindness by solving people's problem, doing the charity, caring the sick people / powerless people whom get disaster, here is the second strategy how to eliminate a sense of self-hatred; you must consider whatever you get is part of God's best plan, if you follow and adapt yourself with God's plan, at the first time you will feel perplexed because there is nobody else can tell you about what you need to follow up with God's plan, but if you pass through God's plan, you will no longer need your mental pain because you really understand about what God wants, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.