You need to calm down

Give yourself to relax
 
   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “You need to calm down”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people can stay calm when they have met with unexpected moment, if we look at reality, many people really hate about an unexpected moment because it can interrupt what they do in the comfort zone, if you ask me why many people hate to accept unexpected moment because they think every unexpected moment can destroy their illusion, here is the truth; people who can't stay calm at different circumstance, they don't deserve to receive self-promotion, in order to be calm person, we must stay in the pain of learning for long period of time, the Islamic philosopher ever said "if you can't bear with the pain of learning, you will be forced to receive the pain of stupidity", so we only have one option among two choices, if we want to prepare our mentality to receive the pain of learning, we must adapt ourselves with the pain of rejection, if we don't experience with the pain of rejection, we tend to avoid the pain of learning, the basic problem why people can't calm down because they can't adapt with the pain of learning zone, here is the special note; “uncomfortable feeling is the part of learning zone, there is no comfortable in learning zone, there is no learning zone at comfort zone”if we understand about that statements, we will not get what makes us angry because the pain of learning can boost our confidence and our ingenuity skill, at this moment, I would share 5 tips how to stay calm, hopefully these strategies can help you to calm your anger or anxiety.

Calm yourself to avoid the accident

  Here is the first tip how to stay calm; you must consider whatever happens in your life is no coincidence, means, everything good has been set by God to be given to you in order to keep you calming in every situation, God does not do something harmful to every human, sometimes God only wants your reaction when you enter into tough times, here is the second tip how to stay calm; you must apply the law of nature in your habit, it means, you can adopt the lesson from the law of nature, such as, surrender to God's plan and how to keep adapting with any circumstance, here is the good news; if you succeed to learn from the law of universe, everything out of your control will fall into your places, here is the third tip how to stay calm; you must believe that God never sleep, it means, God will not leave you when you are living in tough times, sometimes God tests your capacity in order to increase your endurance, maybe you ever heard "patience will show its strength if people stay in the tough times", if God tests your capacity, it indicates that you will be promoted into the higher next level in order to give you the reward, you will never calm yourself if your capacity's standard is low, so you must challenge yourself to achieve something you want in order to upgrade your patience level, here is the fourth tip how to stay calm; you don't follow your ego, it means, you keep practicing your skills even though you have mastered your skill, here is the fifth tip how to stay calm; you prepare yourself by making a contingency plan, the reason why we must do that because not all we want will be congruent with what God wants, if we prepare a contingency plan earlier, we will not get shocked when there is something unpleasant will happen into realityI think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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